Snowy Lessons: A Journey from Ego to Presence-💕

Snowy Lessons: A Journey from Ego to Presence-💕

Last California’s crisp winter, I planned a perfect day on the snowy mountain. I found a website showcasing snow activities—sparkling slopes and thrilling rides under a bright blue sky. “This is it,” I thought, imagining the kids’ laughter echoing through the frosty air. I showed my son the site, but he frowned, saying, “It’ll be crowded for the rides. I don’t want to go.” My ego bristled, dismissing his words, and I pushed forward with my plan. We drove to the resort, tires crunching on icy roads, the car filled with the scent of hot cocoa from our thermoses. But the place was a chaotic sea of people—shouts, clattering ski gear, and long lines snaking through the powdery snow. My son was right. He tugged my sleeve, his breath visible in the chilly air, and said, “Let’s find free snow to play in. Why waste time in lines?” My ego stung, a sharp pang in my chest, as my plan crumbled like dry snow underfoot. I paused, inhaling the pine-scented breeze, and reframed his words. His clear thinking dazzled me like sunlight on fresh snow. Choosing conscious parenting, I stayed present, feeling the cold nip my cheeks. We drove to a quiet, free play area, where they dove into soft, untouched snow, their giggles mingling with the rustle of wind in the trees. Watching them, my heart warmed, a deep peace washing over me. My inner child, once restless with the need to control, found joy in their freedom, basking in the serene, glittering landscape.

#presence #attunement #ego #innerhealing

Sangeetha ❤️